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Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Joyful Expectancy

It seems all I’ve done since January 18 is wait. I waited for the results of a biopsy. I waited for a complete diagnosis. I waited for a treatment plan. I waited for an appointment with a specialist. I waited for my insurance to approve surgery. I waited for my insurance to change. I waited for treatment to be completed. I waited for clear scans. I wait to find out if they will remain clear. I wait.

I have so desperately wanted relief from the wait, relief from the uncertainty, relief from the feeling that I’ve been holding my breath forever.

While I was running I was simply pouring my heart out to the Lord when He spoke.

Lisa, what is it you're really waiting for?

Lord, I want relief.


Okay, Lord, please tell me what I'm really waiting for.

Lisa, you are not waiting to get over cancer; you are waiting to come home.

The created world itself can hardly wait for what's coming next…God reins it in until both creation and all the creatures are ready and can be released at the same moment into the glorious times ahead. Romans 8:20

So then I pondered.

What it is I really want. What is it I’m really waiting for. Could the impatience I feel in life possibly be a misplaced longing to be with God?

I thought I wanted relief. I thought I wanted the end of this cancer thing. As I thought about that, the thought occurred to me that I had lived my whole life like this.

At one time I couldn’t wait to graduate from high school and go to college. Then I couldn’t wait to get married, buy a house and have children. I couldn’t wait until my children were potty-trained, slept through the night and through with the ear infection stage. I can’t wait until my husband can retire, we have the time to travel and I get to hold my grandchildren.


The type of waiting I’ve done is simply the type of waiting that makes a hard situation end. The reality is that each end brings about a new beginning.

I couldn’t hardly stand the wait until my first child was born; however, relief was the furthest thing from my mind when I held her for the first time. As soon as my eyes locked with her clear baby blues and jet-black hair, my heart was gripped with the fear I wouldn’t be able to protect her from this big, bad world.

So it is with cancer, relief was the furthest thing from my mind as I got the report of clear scans, spots unchanged. As the doctor explained I am his only breast patient to not receive chemo, I was gripped with the fear this cancer will come back.

This is why I wait. Yes, I wait for the Lord to lead me day by day; but also I wait for the day the Lord comes back for me. True and complete relief will not come until true and complete redemption comes. Redemption will come when Jesus stands up on the clouds and declares to my enemies, cancer included, that I am His and no one and nothing else can even touch me.

I have been disillusioned I am not waiting for the day cancer is cured I am waiting for the day Jesus calls me to my true home. That is day the struggle ends. That is the day relief comes in the purest of forms. Until that day, I will wait. Expectantly.

These sterile and barren bodies of ours are yearning for full deliverance. That is why waiting does not diminish us, any more than waiting diminishes a pregnant mother. We are enlarged in the waiting. We, of course, don't see what is enlarging us. But the longer we wait, the larger we become, and the more joyful our expectancy. Romans 8:23


Rose Ann Mitchell said...

The NLT says it is with eager hope we wait for that day...the Lord spoke the same verse to me this morning. What are we really waiting for? The answer is in God's Word.

Melanie said...

And I wait with you.

Karen said...

This is the prospective I need to understand. I realize you hit it right on! I keep waiting for the next thing. Wait to have children, can't wait to get married, can't wait to ... I realize I haven't been very good at waiting!!!
Now waiting for my husband to be saved. I think you are hearing from God on this one. We are always waiting for this imperfect world...

You are right precious sister

Bernie said...

Lisa I truly love the spot you are in right now, it is where we all should be, no making deals or begging just accepting and being the best we can be until we go to our true home........:-) Hugs

Blessedmom's Simple Home said...

What a wonderful perspective you shared here. I wish to say something to encourage, but instead I come away encouraged by you.

Denise said...

Lifting you up, and patiently waiting with you sis. I love you.

Peggy said...

Blessings Lisa...what a profound perspective! What a deep expectancy!
What a wonderful word on WAIT! I will wait with you and I thank you for your profound wisdom as you wait and reflect. You have touched me deeply!

I pray that the relief from anything cancer brings or has brought to you, will be diminished & each cancer cell destroyed with no return ever, nor any trace only more of God's GRACE all over you!!!

You are HIS! Praise God that you are the ONLY patient of your dr. and I hope for more patients with this as their outcome. We all have this longing to be home but God chooses for us to wait for His call & live abundantly! So LIVE in Jesus' Name with expectancy and allow the wait to be JOYFUL!

Kari said...

Wow! I love that..."a misplaced longing of wanting to be with God." Thank you agian for sharing your heart and your words!

Shelly said...

This is an awesome post. Truly, truly awesome. Thanks for the note on my blog...i am planning on sharing a cab with you, yes m'am! I land at 8:30 so I'll be in baggage claim before you. Text me when you hit the ground and we'll find each other. I'll be wearing a brown shirt and white skirt. (Yes, I have my clothes laid out already! I have been so stressed over the wardrobe issue!! :))
Your sister in Christ,

Andrea Frazer - Pass the Zoloft said...

On a non-Christian note, your perspective is also very Buddist. So many of us live for the next thing, but in Buddism, the very present is the gift. The moments RIGHT NOW. I am desperately trying to give up my life to God so that I, too, can live in the moment and enjoy what is right in front of me. Of course, as a "friend" I am so sorry you had to go through cancer for this perspective. But I'm glad you have it, and I will pray that you do find relief as well as freedom from cancer forever. Love you.